Monday, July 30, 2007

Unreturned love -should you walk away?

For the past days been searching for answers on my recent feelings... and then I finally search in the Internet for articles and here are my research.

UnReturned Love -should you walk away?
Devoted love might not be reciprocated. How far can we really wait for a person to fall in love with us, if you truthfully love that person?
Nobody might wait forever. Love "finally" needs to be returned.

Would you connect in an early phase of relationship?

That's mostly true if you're sure your relationship is built on of one-way love. Though one-thing we often do not consider is you must not all the time expect something specific in return.
Some be uncertain to commit and bond in early phase of relationship. It could be coyness, or fear of unreciprocated love. So how do you get your love returned from the other part?

Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:

1. Keep on telling about your feelings vs. hold on and make progress later

2. Decide if love was not returned is it unfeasible to walk away?

3. Decide about time to move on and find someone with common way of thinking

So, let's evaluate all-important steps one by one!

Keep on telling about your feelings vs. hold on and make progress later

The biggest part of telling a someone you love him is the expectation that they will say it back. When they don't, your self-esteem gets hurt! But you need to stay away from misconceptions connected with an early phase of liaison with your partner.

You may ask yourself, what is the path of action if does not love you back. At least in a way you do expect to? Do you keep on telling about your feelings, or do you just avoid that topic in hopes of making progress later?

If love was not returned is it unfeasible to walk away?

Some women get early disheartened by the fact the love was not returned in the way they expected it. Although there are men who tend to put their developing relationship to the last place in their list of important items, they might not call you back. Does that behavior show little obvious interest in deepening relationship to the next level?

However it is unfeasible to walk away from a man you love if there is nothing wrong with your relationship besides the fact that her feelings aren't as strong as yours.

Time to move on and find someone with mutual feelings

Depending on your situation my suggestion if your partner responded calmly to your expressions of love is:
Accept it.

Move on for love somewhere else - keep as friend only if you can. Doing that you'll not get hurt in the process of them not having returning feelings for you. Move on and find someone with mutual feelings.

A man/woman might love you - but can't say it for some reason

Sure masarap umibig, but it's also nice to enjoy returned love too. If you love someone and obtain no attention and affection in return, that's one-way love.

Bottom line: A man/woman might love you - but can't say it for some reason. You might search for non-verbal expressions of affection instead. If he/she feels pleased, happy and secure inside, and responds physically - by touching you more, you're on the right way to true love.

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My Questinos has been answered in "Itanong mo kay Jemme"
Ang Biro na hindi nakakatawa T_T

If you look into my eyes
will you see my love for you?
If you look at my lips
will you know it's meant for you?

Everything happens for reasons...
Every moment has its own seasons...

The right time will come,
we will be together for eternity,
The right moment will come
our bond shall be filled with God's Blessings and Security.

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