Relationship Versus Being Connected

As Google would say...

Have you found the person who gives life a meaning ...



"Connected" ...

"pero no hay nosotros"

I realize there are other people who have so called "relationship" but they are not connected...
the connection was never there... they only have this relationship to show that they are in relationship?

And how do you explain the "blood relationship" but can't even connect with them?
oh we have a lot of that kind of problem in our world these days...

What is being connected?

connection for me is like...
the person have the sense of your feelings and thoughts without even saying it...
somehow there are moments that you thought of him/her and all of the sudden he/she will connect with you.

We spend time connecting with other person ...
may be it will end to have emotional connection, relationship, or just friendship...

How to spot the difference... is often the question in my mind.

What is relationship?

For me, its a constant communication, connected communication, sharing ideas with honesty, commitment, and having faith on each other.

I didn't mention anything about kissing, nor sex right? Because I think those things are not the true foundation, if those were the foundation then what about if someone have a "one night stand"?
Would you consider that as "instant relationship"?

Physical contact are important but I think they are just the "icing" on the cake. Icing makes the cake beautiful and attractive but doesn't make the cake delicious.
We can have a tasty cake without the icing really.

well ...
hmmm...

Connection is the most important foundation in any relationship ... don't you think?