I remember the conference I attended regarding marriage and relationship in Calvary Chapel conference held once a year (Please don't expect me to remember these lesson in every season of my life, i mean we are all humans that we sometimes forget what we have learn, that is why I'm writing it in my blog to remind me in the future.)
Now that same trinity should also be use in a couple - Man and Woman relationship specially in marriage, because man is very different from woman we both think and interpret things differently, sometimes when a man said "I'm busy, need to do this and that.. etc..."
We woman would interpret it as "I'm not important in his life, he has some better things to do than being with me..."
We do sometimes, right? specially when you're not grounded in God's word - a woman will loose her confidence that she will think "may be he is seeing someone else!".
And so, on that seminar the Pastor explains that "how do we keep our marriage and relationship?"
When man and woman interpret things differently?
ice9web solutions: We have to use the trinity, it will be like:
To explain this it means...
For example when you feel that she don't seem to understand you - you don't go directly to the woman, and vice-versa - the woman should not go directly to the man when you're angry and irritated.
Both should rather pray and say everything to God. And, God will communicate to that woman you love.
This is also the same as to the woman, she will pray and say everything to God and God will get to that man's heart who is really meant for her.
Even if the couple will have misunderstanding (quarrel) both of them should not say bad things to each other...like the man will go directly to nag her and the woman will tell him his mistakes .. she should pray and tell everything to God ... and the man should also pray and tell everything to God.
Praying together as a couple is very important in relationship, morning and night the couple must pray together.
In short God must always be in between the two person then the couple will become one because God will sustain everything (forgiveness, desire, love, strength...) to be with each other no matter what will happen.
We are only humans, we can never sustain anything (not even our own promises) without God's help through prayers.
Oh I remember that I have written some of my notes on Calvary Chapel Davao site: Marriage Workshop link