It is hard to love as by nature we are self-seeking, Eros - shallow love, Phileo - brotherly love, Agape - unconditional love.
Do you love all belivers? The perfect example is Jesus, even thou He was on the cross He said "forgive them for they don't know what the do"
The fruit of the spirit are Love, self-control, Grace, mercy
Anybody that says He love God but hate his brother is a liar.
To forgive those people who sins against us.
Romans 5:8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
What makes not being fruitful in our Christian walk is not forgiving and forget. Not to talk about it anymore.
Colossians 3:13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
Never count sins of others as God forgive you.
If you Love one another they will see Jesus in us.
1 John 2:5 But if anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him:
If you don't love one another ask yourself, did you truly received God?
Struggling is a good thing but if you keep on hating people then you will reap what you sow.
Matthew 22:37 Jesus replied: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.